Too conscious mind
I think when you miss someone, that person becomes larger than life. That person becomes so great, majestic, perfect. You imagine glistening skin and the lingering scent. You remember just all the good stuff. When you miss, you’re just at the mercy of his greatness.
To miss someone is to be unfair to yourself. Because when you miss, it’s because you took the decision to leave. So when you miss, you should try to remind yourself why you left in the first place. Yes. It is that annoying constant reminder that everyone needs.
Hopefully it makes it easier.
You wish you can not feel it. Miss. But you do. So I guess the only thing left to do is to pit your heart against your mind whenever you miss. And hopefully when you miss, it’s more tolerable.
This is all justification, of course.